Philemon 1:9
Yet for love's sake I prefer to appeal to you — rather than command, I am appealing to you, Paul, an old man and now a prisoner also for Christ Jesus — the turn from authority to supplication (deomai — I beseech/appeal) prioritizes relationship over hierarchical power. Paul's self-description as presbutēs (elder/old man) and now desmios (prisoner) also establishes vulnerability and solidarity: he suffers imprisonment for Christ; can Philemon not extend grace? The appeal is to agapē (love), the highest Christian motive, superseding obligation.