Matthew 19:11
But he said to them: not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given. Jesus' response to the disciples' not-marry conclusion: not everyone can receive this saying. The receive is the same language as receiving the kingdom (Matthew 18:5) — the capacity to live within the ruling of verse 9 is a gift, not a universal ability. The discipleship that Jesus describes requires the grace to live by the creation's marriage standard.